When you’re getting to know a Japanese woman and you’re ready to deepen your relationship, it’s not too hard to win her over for the long-term. When a Japanese woman is in love, she’s the most loyal and giving person imaginable.
Japanese women (and Japanese people) are the most generous on earth. There is no end in giving to other people. Once a Japanese woman loves you, she’ll lay down her life for you. There’s no selfishness at all in a Japanese relationship.
In order to take things to the next level, you’ve got to show her that you’re giving too. A Japanese woman wants a man who will return all the love she gives and more, without ever asking for anything in return.
Let Her Know She’s Number One
Japanese women have serious jealousy issues. This is a generalization, but ask anyone who has been in a relationship with a Japanese woman and they’ll tell you the same thing. It may come from a deep-seated insecurity, or simply the fact that lots of Japanese men cheat on a regular basis.
Whatever the reason, make sure she knows that she’s number one and you won’t have any problems. I’ve found Japanese people to be extremely committed in relationships, and if you really want a Japanese woman to love you, you have to give her this commitment as well.
Make Her Happy Intimately
Statistics show that the average Japanese couple lags far behind the rest of the world in terms of bedtime activity. It might be for this reason that lots of westerners think Japanese people are “sexless.” I’ve found quite the opposite to be true. In fact, without all of our hang-ups about sex, I find that Japanese people are much more sexually comfortable and open about sexuality.
The reason that lots of men misunderstand the sexuality of Japanese women is that we’re not used to taking the lead in the bedroom. Western women are much more sexually aggressive. It’s going to take a Japanese woman much longer to reach the level of sexual comfort where she is attacking you in bed. For this reason, many western men think that their Japanese girlfriends are not interested in sex because they rarely initiate it.
On the other hand, Japanese women aren’t hard to please in bed. Because Japanese men usually make love with giving themselves pleasure as the main objective, Japanese women aren’t used to being treated really well. This means that if you can do it for her in bed, it will make her insatiable.
Once you cross that line with a Japanese woman, she will stay with you forever. Japanese women are very pragmatic; they don’t usually jump into something without thinking it over carefully. This applies to relationships too. Give her something to really think about and she’ll know that you’re the one.