The Japanese And Western Culture Gap – How It Effects Relationships

Japanese women are very different from western women. Many are beautiful, sophisticated and elegant in a way that drives lots of western men insane. Because of this, lots of guys are attracted to Japanese women, but there are barriers that make it difficult.

Where To Meet Japanese Women
Unless you live in a place with a large Japanese community, Japanese women can be a bit scarce. There are a few ways that guys go about meeting Japanese women, such as attending international events or offering to teach English, but these are generally not good for meeting a Japanese woman with whom to have a romantic relationship. Women who want help with their English probably want help with their English, and that’s about all. Although you can approach her and maybe get her in the bed before she goes home, that doesn’t pass for much of a relationship.

What really works for meeting Japanese women is to have Japanese friends or be connected somehow with the Japanese community. Introductions from friends are the best way to meet.

Understanding Japanese Culture
Many western men scare Japanese women off because they don’t understand them. When a Japanese woman comes across the ocean, she drags her culture with her, tucked away in one of her suitcases. Before starting to date a Japanese girl, you should learn as much as possible about Japanese culture.

Whole books have been written on the subject, but here are a few basics. Japanese people are shy and easily embarrassed. They stay in groups and like to preserve group harmony, often ranking the group’s interests above their own. They communicate indirectly and through intuition rather than verbally. Japanese women, once devoted to a man, are some of the world’s sweetest and most loyal lovers. If you’re still interested, head to your local library and find some books on Japan.

What Do Japanese Women Like?
Although every woman is different, there are some things that Japanese women generally like in a man. They like men who are successful and confident, fun and easy-going, not too aggressive and not afraid to show their ‘cute’ side. Japanese women tend to have a high standard of taste in fashion and food. Most Japanese women like men who are hard-working but not workaholics.

Aside from all of that, take everything you know about western women and double it for Japanese women. They love to be complimented, need to be told that you appreciate them, like to know that they’re number one, and they have a raging sexual side that they hide because of societal expectations, but they’ll unleash it on the right man.

When you finally meet a Japanese woman that you like, take it slow and easy. They’re turned off by guys who rush, and they need more time than a western woman. When the time is right, she will show you in subtle ways, so pay attention. Once you’re dating and things are going well, you’ll never find a sweeter or more giving partner.